Thursday, June 13, 2013

Have You Achieved Your Physical Potential?

“If we did all the things we are capable of, we would astound ourselves.”

- Thomas Edison

Remember when you were a kid flying down the street as fast as your dirt bike would propel you? How about on the swing set, pumping your legs madly, targeting angle and timing for maximum lift until you felt like you would fly over the overhead bar? What about that sheer thrill of legs going so fast they almost felt like they were coming loose as you chased your friends (or were chased) down a trail? As kids we were an unrelenting ball of will, every moment looking to test boundaries, defy limits, overturn physics. We were in love with speed and heights and adventure, yes, but I think we were amazed by all of our own capabilities – the new (and ever enhanced) capacities we were always discovering. Decades beyond those wild days of youth, we’re still each in possession of an amazing human body. We each still hold untold genetic potential – potential that, as the Edison quote suggests, would astound us. The question is, what do we do with this potential? Do we chase it down with the same fervor of our 10-year-old selves? Do we put it on the mental back burner in the name of adult responsibilities? Have we simply forgotten about it – or given up on it entirely?

We go to the gym perhaps. Maybe we bike to work or get our 10,000 steps in each day. We get out for a hike every couple weeks during the milder seasons. Some of us perhaps struggle to meet any, let alone all, of these tasks. Either way, the question of potential – genuine, raw, lofty potential lingers. Do we ever wonder what we’d be capable of if we tried? Maybe from time to time we think of what we might “look like” if we went all out in the healthy living routine and really pushed our workouts. I have nothing against vanity, but that’s not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about physical achievement – seriously challenging ourselves. Maybe once upon a grade in high school or college, we were at the top of whatever game, but who wants to live feeling like their potential is old news, a memory in a yearbook? Living our physical capacity shouldn’t be just a blip in our biographies.
It seems like we’ve delegated physical pursuit in our culture. We’re much more inclined to watch athletes instead of become them. We’ll spend hours watching sporting events on a screen or in the stands but come up with every excuse in the book to not bother starting even a pickup game of our own. We revel in analyzing the minutiae of total strangers’ performances but never venture our own attempts. Content with experiencing that level of physical exertion and development vicariously through a satellite feed, we become more sedentary and detached from our own physical selves. We forgo and often forget what it means to move, to push our bodies, to come up against our own limits, let alone extend them through discipline and ambition.
It seems like a waste – to never know what it means to fully thrive in our bodies. What would it feel like to be strong, to be swift, to be graceful, to be in the “zone.” How would you feel differently about your life, yourself?
I love the idea of coming to the end of my abilities. There’s something immensely thrilling and therapeutic to it. Of course I’m always back for more, to push the envelope further, but I love not knowing if I can do something and attempting it anyway. Will we be happy, settled, satisfied if we make our way through life without testing ourselves, without taking life for the ultimate ride? Time, of course, is no excuse. As we get older, we too often feel like our lives contract. There’s a certain wisdom to that – realizing you don’t need to learn 8 foreign languages or be a professional soccer player to be the person you can and want to be. Nonetheless, how much do we miss by letting our physical potential languish – to never push the outer edges of it, to never inhabit our bodies fully enough to see their potential realized?
I’m not recommending people give up all their free time to suddenly pursue extreme training. Nor am I suggesting getting on the chronic cardio track. If you’re wired and inclined that way, I get it. Do it and enjoy. If you’re not wired that way or so inclined, by all means, don’t! That said, discover an endeavor that would inspire you to push yourself, to achieve something you’d enjoy and be proud of. That doesn’t mean what will get you the most recognition or what you think others commonly do. Think for a minute what ultimate vitality would mean for you. What would it look like in your life? How would reaching and experiencing your potential figure into that?
Honestly, I think that’s half the fun of it – deciding what physical goal or adventure you want to go after based on your interests and personality. Maybe it’s climbing a mountain or getting a black belt in a martial art. Maybe it’s competitive dancing or reaching the level of personal investment and physical ability in yoga. Perhaps it’s doing a Tough Mudder run or competing in something like a community sports league or CrossFit regionals. On the other hand, maybe it’s cycling across the U.S. or running that marathon. Maybe for right now it’s signing up for your first 5K. It all starts somewhere. Wherever your personal passion and your physical goals intersect, maybe that’s where you should head.
Because this life goes fast. In the midst of all the daily chaos and commutes, the work and errands, we remember to mow the lawn but too often forget to fulfill the deeper, less obvious possibilities of our human lives. We forget to explore and stretch the boundaries of our experience – like we did as children. We deserve to enjoy our bodies and revel in their full capacities – to discover the capacities and nuances of their performance. We deserve to live our lives astounded by ourselves.
Posted By: Mark Sisson

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

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The real need for families to discuss finances!


Family Finances Need More Discussion
Family arrangements in the US have become more...
Family arrangements in the US have become more "diverse." (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

One of the toughest things for families to discuss is money matters.
Sometimes we don’t discover that there’s a problem until family members have lost money or have plunged deep in debt.
Much of the disconnect with money has to do with our culture: We don’t like to talk about it and when we do it only has to be in a positive sense, i.e., “I just bought this great stock” or “I won the lottery.” Negative money talk doesn’t do well at the family bbq or neighborhood get-together.  And the money taboo doesn’t go away when we age.
According to the National Endowment for Financial Education (NEFE), an excellent group that researches financial issues, some seven out of 10 Americans surveyed have “major barriers” that halt family members from openly discussing financial issues on behalf of older family members.  Then there’s the problem of dementia, which will impact more than half of those over 85.

 
Fortunately, this is one of the easiest problems to monitor if families simply open up lines of communication and monitor older relatives. Here’s what I’ve found that works:
* Ask your relative on a regular basis if they’ve been getting any unsolicited calls. Sometimes aggressive bill collectors will harass older people, because they answer the phone more than younger folks. Maybe they are not current on their bills. You have to ask them directly in a curious way: Did you see your latest property-tax bill? Did it go up or down? How are your utility bills? If they say they “don’t know,” then press further.
* Have a plan. Which siblings or other relatives will regularly check on the elder member of your family? They should check in at least once a month or more frequently if cognitive impairment is an issue. Spread out the responsibilities so that everyone does their fair share.
* Does your relative need power of attorney? Although I’ve seen this abused over the years, your older relative should delegate medical and financial power of attorney to a trustworthy family member (who is not having financial problems). This will allow them to make decisions in case of serious incapacitation. Monitor the person with the POA to see what needs to be done, such as paying bills.
* Be patient. It takes time and a great deal of patience to deal with these items. Make a checklist and discuss them at a family gathering. When my family recently moved my 85-year-old father from our family home, there were several months’ worth of details that needed to be resolved involving movers, donations, interim housing and finding a new home.
If you take your time, try to build a consensus on the best solutions, then you’ll not only help your family member, but bring your clan together. The key is communication and compassion.

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7 Functional Fitness Exercises

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7 Functional Fitness Exercises

Tuesday, 6/11/2013 at 2:48:56 PM
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As a strength coach to many professional athletes and entertainers, my job is to create a fitness program that helps them successfully perform their jobs. And while your profession my not involve scoring touchdowns, you need to train for your role, whether that involves safely picking up your baby from a crib or keeping your spine stable and linear while you sit at your desk.
Cardio machines and single-joint exercises all have their place in fitness, but with the limited amount of time that we can all dedicate to a wellness program, you need to be training your body the way you intend to have it play. Here are seven moves that will help you build a stronger body for your everyday activities.
How It Works
Perform as many reps of each exercise as possible in 60 seconds, resting 30 seconds between each move. Depending on your fitness level, perform 1 to 3 cycles.
1. Caterpillar Walkout: Stand tall with feet shoulder-width apart and hands resting at sides. Lower hips into a squat position with hands in front of feet and palms on the floor. Quickly walk hands out until body is in pushup position, a straight line from head to heels. Pause, then reverse direction back to starting position.
Coach's Tip: To build greater symmetry in your hips and legs, try this exercise on one leg. Begin in the starting position with only your right leg on the floor. Perform the move for 30 seconds, then switch to the left leg for the remainder of the time.
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2. Lean Tower of Pisa: Stand tall with feet hip-width apart and arms extended out to sides parallel to the ground. Brace core and raise right knee to navel level until it forms a 90-degree angle with your body. Slowly rotate torso while leaning forward at hips and reaching right hand down to left foot. (As you lean forward, right leg will extend back behind hips.) Pause and reverse motion back to starting position, keeping right leg off the ground throughout the entire movement. After 30 seconds, switch to left leg.
Coach's Tip: Aim to form a "T" with your body with your leg fully extended back behind you and your torso parallel to the floor.
3. Get-Up: Lie face-up with legs fully extended, hip-width apart, right arm reaching toward the ceiling in front of chest, and left arm at side with palm on the floor. In one strong movement, draw both ankles toward glutes and lift torso upward as right hand punches up. Continue driving toward the ceiling, pressing into the floor with left palm and heels, to come to standing with right arm fully extended overhead. Reverse direction, only using right hand to lower back to starting position. Switch hands so left hand is extended in front of chest and repeat. Continue alternating arms.
Coach's Tip: Be certain that you only use one arm to stand and lower yourself back down to the ground.
4. Skipping Olympian: Stand tall with feet hip-with apart, arms extended out to sides parallel to the ground. Keeping right knee bent, quickly swing it backward, out to the side, then in front of your body, hopping left foot off the ground as if you were skipping. When right foot touches the ground, switch legs. Continue alternating between legs.
Coach's Tip: To ensure proper spine stability, avoid leaning forward at the hip and keep your chin parallel to the ground.
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5. Chop Squat: Stand tall with feet together and arms extended overhead, fingers interlocked. Brace core and quickly jump off the ground. Land in a wide squat with thighs parallel to the ground while swinging arms toward right hip until they come to rest just outside right knee. (You will be performing a chopping motion with your arms.) Jump back to starting position and alternate chopping to right and left sides.
Coach's Tip: To increase strength gains throughout this move, jump higher in and out of the squat.
6. Uni-Plank Lift: Begin in a traditional pushup position. Raise right hand and left leg 1 inch off the ground. This is your starting position. Brace core and quickly raise both until they are parallel to ground. Continue lowering and raising both extremities for 30 seconds, then switch to opposite arm and leg.
Coach's Tip: To avoid placing unwanted stress on your neck, keep eyes focused on the floor.
7. Wimbledon: Begin in a traditional lunge position with right foot forward and left leg positioned 2 feet behind hip. (Right thigh will be parallel to the floor with knee bent to 90 degrees, while left knee is as close to the floor as possible without touching.) Keeping hands in front of chest as if holding a tennis racket, brace core and jump as far to the right as possible. Upon landing, jump back to the left. Continue jumping side to side.
Coach's Tip: Your goal is to jump back as soon as you land.

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

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Informant- Financial Fitness compared to Physical Fitness

His personal fitness trainer shows up at 5:30 A.M., 3 days a week. John Schlifske knows the trainer won't accept any excuses. “I have him come not because he’s going to show me exercises that I couldn’t find online,” says Schlifske. “It’s for one simple reason. He’s going to make me do what I otherwise wouldn’t do if he didn’t show up.”





Schlifske, Northwestern Mutual Chairman and CEO, believes the same type of discipline is necessary when it comes to financial fitness. “A trusted financial advisor isn’t necessarily going to give you advice that you probably couldn’t find somewhere else, although I think oftentimes they do,” says Schlifske. “What they’re really going to do is keep you from doing stupid things.”
Schlifske shared this philosophy while on a speaking tour titled The Power of a Game Plan. Steve Forbes, chairman and editor-in-chief of Forbes Media joined Schlifsky on the tour.